I come from the old school where we have a saying, “Everyone knows, but you.” Meaning, everyone has peeped your card about your sexuality, but you are in denial. Now, based on the information you provided only one thing stands out that makes me go, hmmm, could he be gay? It’s that everyone he comes across thinks he is. But I am sure the “Big City” man who dazzled you with his good looks, high-fashions, and sweet nothings made you weak in the knees. Just because you’re in a small town you’re not alienated from the world. So talk to me is he gay? – “Small Town Confusion” So when he left my cousin asked, “Is he gay?” I said, “No.” About a month or two later he met my cousin and as soon as she laid eyes on him she said he’s gay, without even talking to him first. I remember hearing that “Down Low” dudes like hitting it from the back and nothing else. That same night he told me he hadn’t had sex since October and it was June. I like to dress nice and I like clean things.” I said, “Ok.” He then asked, “Is that gonna be a problem?” I said, “No.” I asked, “Why do they think you’re gay?” He said, “It’s because I’m well-groomed. When I got to his house we started talking and he told me that everyone he comes across thinks he’s gay. Carl asked if we could chill one night and I said yeah.
